Thursday 20 October 2016

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT """WORSHIP"""




What is Worship?
Worship is prizing God our Father, Jesus our Savior, and our Holy Spirit. 

We most truly worship God when we prize Him as the sole object of our heart's desire. Right after Philippians 3:3, where Paul said worship is by the Spirit of God, he expresses the pinnacle of his relationship with Jesus. He so treasures Christ that all else is loss, compared with the gain of having Him. John Piper's theme is "God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him." David said to God, "Because your love is better than life, my lips will glorify you (Ps 63:3). Worship is non-negotiable, in the light that everything comes from Him (2 Cor 4:7, 2 Cor 3:5, 1 Chron 29:5,10-13,16,20).



Worship assumes Lordship.  

Worship says not only "He is Lord," but "You are my Lord." Romans 12:1 urges us "in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God. This is your spiritual act of worship." Not being conformed to this world, but being transformed to the character of Jesus is good, pleasing, and perfect worship with our lives that delights God.



Worship assumes a kingdom of which He is King of kings.  

The King of the ages is due homage and reverence. Through all eternity, we will be saying, "Great and marvelous are Your deeds, Lord God Almighty. Just and true are Your ways, King of the ages. Who will not fear You, O Lord, and bring glory to Your name?" (Rev 15:3-4). 



Worship is whole-hearted obedience. 

 Worship is simple obedience to the first commandment. "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength" (Mark 12:30). More than anything, God wants us to love Him. Worship is freely loving God to the point of giving Him our submitted hearts and wills in every area.



Worship is spontaneous.  

Worship can't help overflowing from a passionate heart. Real worship is grounded in truth but involves deeply felt emotion. Intense longing for the nearness of God will express itself irrepressibly in worship. "Blessed are those you choose and bring near to live in your courts!" (Ps 65:4).




Worship is for God Himself, not the means to something else.  

True worship culminates in God Himself. The "praise service" is not the warm-up for the preaching. A. W. Tozer called worship the missing jewel of the church. Dr. Ronald Allen said, "The situation seems not to have changed appreciably since these words were first stated by A. W. Tozer." The jewel may still be missing, but now many people know it and want to find it.



Worship is a matter of covenant-keeping.  

All who hold fast His covenant will worship (Is 56:6-7), and worshiping other gods is covenant-breaking, for which God brings judgment (2 Kings 17:38, 2 Chron 7:22, 24:18). God repeatedly warned His people against the idolatry of worshiping other gods (Exo. 20:5, Josh 24:14, Acts 17:23). Jesus received worship on many occasions (Mat  28:9,16-17, Luke 24:52, John 9:38). He said, "Worship the Lord your God and serve him only" (Mat 4:10). 



Worship is a priestly function.  

The Levitical priests came before God to minister in His presence (Deut 10:8, Lev 44:15). We are a kingdom of priests, who draw near God to worship Him (Exo 19:6, Rev 1:6).



Worship is a lifestyle, not an event.   

The psalmist understood the lifelong commitment to seek God. "One thing I ask of the  Lord, this is what I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the  Lord all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the  Lord and to seek him in his temple. My heart says of you, 'Seek his face!' Your face, Lord, I will seek (Ps 27:4,8).



Worship is not limited to a certain day or place.  

Jesus in John 4 struck down the idea that worship depends on a place. But something corporate happens, bigger than the individual parts, when God's people gather to harmonize their worship from the overflow of their individual worshiping lives.



Worship puts things in their place, even answers to prayer.

 In worship, we get God's perspective. Our lives should be God-centered, not man-centered, problem-centered, need-centered, or comfort-centered. David cried out, "O God, you are my God, earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you, my body longs for you, in a dry and weary land where there is no water. I have seen you in the sanctuary and beheld your power and your glory" (Ps 63:1-2). 




Worship must not be institutionalized or ritualized.  

Colossians 2:16-17 takes the emphasis off times and forms. Worship is inner spiritual reality. It cannot be processed, standardized, prepackaged, sanitized, or printed in a "worship folder." When we engage in the outward forms of worship with our heart far from God, the Bible calls this vain (Is 1:11-15, Col 2:23). It is lip-service without full devotion, empty confession without a committed heart (Matt 15:9, Is 29:13, Amos 5:21-24). God specifically told His people not to worship Him in the vanity of the heathen (Deut 12:4,31, 2 Kings 17:32-33,41).




Worship is an action verb.  

Some experiences of the heart in worship may not be expressed outwardly, but the Hebrew words for worship are active. The Biblical body language of worship includes standing, bowing, falling down before God, lifting hands, shouting, clapping, singing, processions, festive throngs, new songs, kneeling, dancing, trumpets, tambourines, and other musical instruments. Other worship words are glorify, exalt, exult, magnify, and bless. The Biblical worship vocabulary indicates that we don't worship passively and unintentionally. Isaiah and the apostle John fell down before God  in worship.  




Worship prepares the way of the Lord. 

Worship in the tabernacle and the temple pictured the coming of the Savior. The psalmist said, "He who sacrifices thank offerings honors me, and he prepares the way so that I may show him the salvation of God" (Ps 50:23). Our worship looks forward to His summing up all things to Himself in all eternity. 




Worship is an instrument of victory in spiritual warfare.  

Worship has spiritual power to win victories. In Joshua 5:14-15 and 6:2, Joshua bowed to worship the Captain of the Lord's hosts, and God supernaturally brought down Jericho after Joshua's worship. In Judges 7:15, Gideon bowed in worship, returned to his camp, and commanded, "Arise, for the Lord has given the enemy into our hands." The Israelites again used worship as God's appointed weapon for winning a three-fold victory in 2 Chronicles 20:22. They had not even reached the battlefront when God acted to completely destroy three enemy armies.




Worship has implications for evangelism. 

Jesus told the woman at the well that the reason he was talking to her about her life on earth and her eternal destiny was that His Father was seeking true worshipers. Then Jesus said, "Look at the fields. They are ripe for the harvest of more worshipers." The point of evangelism is not getting people saved or keeping them out of hell; it is getting worshipers. Jesus might say the same thing to us. Look around at the ripe fields of those who do not know what it means to worship the living God. If staying out of hell is our main motivation for salvation, we will operate only in our own self-interest. What is the primary motivation for our relationship with Jesus? If it is anything other than to worship, we have only a business bargain with him. God intends for us to come alive to Him in worship. 




Now It's Your Turn 

The heading of many of the Psalms is musical notation. God wants to hear songs of worship from your life and voice. Will you tune your heart to sing His praise? Will your life be an instrument of praise and worship?

Reprinted with permission: Sylvia Gunter, www.thefathersbusiness.com




















Friday 16 September 2016

TOP TEN WAYS TO TEACH VALUES TO YOUR KIDS

by Mark Brandenburg









In a consumer-driven society that broadcasts values that don’t reflect what you believe, how can fathers teach values to their kids? Here are ten ideas to help you:
1.    Tell them your life stories and teach through your stories 
Kids love to hear stories about your childhood. Weave in some moral dilemmas and you’ve got great opportunities to teach values to them. It certainly beats lecturing your kids! 
2.     Live your own life according to your values—walk the talk. 
Kids learn by imitating, especially at a young age. They are very adept at seeing if what you say and what you do are matching up. Don’t give them confusing signals; follow your own values every moment.
 
3.     Expose them to your religion or faith 
It seems especially important today to let them know that they’re not alone. Providing your kids with a community of faith will strengthen their values and provide parents some “leverage”
4.     Pay attention to who else might be teaching values to your kids 
Get to know your child’s teachers, coaches, relatives, etc. Anyone who spends time with your kids may be influencing them. Know their values and beliefs as well.
5.     Ask your kids questions that will stimulate dialogue about values 
Telling them what values they should have won’t always be effective, especially when your kids get older. Asking them “curious” questions will allow discussions that will eventually lead to values. “What did you think about that fight,” may be more effective than, “He shouldn’t have started that fight!”
6.     Talk to them about values in a relaxed and easy way 
Nothing will turn your kids off more than preaching values to them after they’ve screwed up! Talk to them when everyone’s relaxed, and do it in a light, conversational manner. They’ll be much more likely to be listening rather than tuning you out.
7.     Read them fairy tales when they’re younger 
Fairy tales capture the imagination of kids and can easily lead to a discussion of values. Kids will learn the most concerning values when they’re excited about the topic.
8.     Involve your kids in art, activities, or helping others while limiting TV and video games 
Kids learn values when they experience them. Allow them to experience helping others and involve them in activities that will expand their creativity.
9.     Have frequent conversations about values in your household 
This lets your kids know that it’s important and it’s not just something you talk about when they do something wrong.
10. Have high expectations for your kids’ value systems 
Kids will tend to rise to the level of expectation you have for them. Their value system will often reflect yours if the expectations are high.







































Friday 26 August 2016

40 WORDS & ALIBIS YOU MUST ALWAYS AVOID FOR YOU TO SUCCEED....read them











Mind control is the result of self-discipline and habit. And one great thing I have come to understand about great people is that they are able to control their mind in order to achieve their set goals. You either control your mind or it controls you. There is no halfway compromise. The most practical of all methods for controlling the mind is the habit of keeping it busy with a definite purpose, backed by a definite plan.

However, people who do not succeed have one distinguishing trait in common. They know all the reasons for failure, and have what they believe to be airtight alibis to explain away their own lack of achievement.







Some of these alibis are clever, and a few of them are justifiable by the facts. But alibis cannot be used for wealth, riches, or achievements. The world wants to know only one thing - have you achieved success?

As you read the following list, examine yourself carefully and determine how many of these words and alibis are your own property.



1. IF only I had good education...



2. IF only I had money...



3. IF only I had enough ''pull"...



4. IF only I didn't have a wife and family...



5. IF only I could get a job...



6. IF only I had good health...



7. IF only I had time...



8. IF only times were better...



9. IF only I had travelled abroad...



10. IF only I were younger...



11. IF only other people understod me...



12. IF only conditions around me were different...



13. IF only I could live my life over again...



14. IF only I did not fear what 'they' would say...



15. IF only I had been given a chance...



16. IF only I now had a chance...



17. IF only other people didn't 'have it in for me'....



18. IF only nothing happened to stop me...



19. IF only I had been born rich...



20. IF only I had talent some people have...



21. IF only I could meet "the right people"....



22. IF only I could save some money...



23. IF only the boss appreciated me...



24. IF only people didn't get on my nerves...



25. IF only I didn't have to keep house and look after the children...



26. IF only I had somebody to help me...



27. IF only I lived in a big city.....



28. IF only I could just get started....



29. IF only I were free....



30. IF only I had the personality of some people...



31. IF only I could do what I want...



32. IF only I dared assert myself...



33. IF only I were not so fat...



34. IF only I were not so thin...



36. IF only I didn't have to work so hard...



37. IF only I hadn't lost my money...



38. IF only I had a business of my own...



39. IF only I didn't have a "past"...



40. IF only I had not been born under the wrong star...



IF only - and this is the greatest of them all - I had the courage to see myself as I really am, I would find out what is wrong with me and correct it. Then I might have a chance to profit by my mistakes and learn something from the experience of others. I know there is something wrong with me or I would now be where I would have been if I had spent more time analysing my weakness, and less time building alibis to cover them.


An alibi is the child of one's own imagination. It is human nature to defend one's one brainchild. Building alibis is a deeply rooted habit. Habits are difficult to break, especially when they provide justification for something we do.

Plato had this truth in mind when he said, "The first and best victory is to conquer self. To be conquered by self is, of all things, the most shameful and vile". That is why it is very important for you to get rid of alibis in your life. It kills creativity and innovation in human. You will always have excuse for what and when things don't go right as expected.

If you look at yourself inwardly and you still find one or two alibis mentioned above, friend, you need to break the habit...now....before it finally break you!































Friday 22 July 2016

GOOD SIDES OF "FAILURE" --- How Failure Can Help You Grow



Failure is such a negative word that it seems strange to suggest that it can be a good thing. How many times have you looked back on your life, thought of mistakes you’ve made, and kicked yourself over them? I know I sure have. I have had many failures in my life. I have lost a job or opportunities; I have mismanaged my money; and I have had trouble in relationships. But my sole decision always is that…life goes on as it should.

Many people allow failure to hold them back, when in reality failure can be a good thing! Fear of failure prevents many people from following their dreams or having a go at something new. Fear of failing is failure in itself because it holds back so many would-be success stories.

History has shown that the most successful exploits frequently came on the back of failure. Just think of Winston Churchill. He failed the sixth grade and was defeated in every single election for public office until he became Prime Minister at the young age of 62. Albert Einstein did not speak until he was four years old, and couldn’t read until he was seven. His parents thought he was “sub-normal.” He was expelled from school and his teachers described him as “mentally slow, unsociable and adrip forever in foolish dreams.” But nowadays, many of us still climb on his shoulders of invention. What I am trying to tell you is that Failure is actually on our side. Failing allows us to grow, learn, and find new opportunities.



Here are some points to show you those good sides of failure:-

#Failure portrays that you have courage

Even though you didn’t get the results you wanted, at least you were trying to do something. So many people let the fear of failure prevent them from reaching for their dreams. So don’t be worried about a failure – at least you had the courage to have a go. Courage is not the absence of fear; it is feeling the fear and taking action anyway. When you have a go, despite the possibility of failure, you show that you have great courage.



#Failure makes you stronger

When you don’t get the result you want, you can become more determined to succeed. At first you probably feel discouraged, frustrated or upset but these feelings don’t last forever. You then get a burst of determination and strength of purpose to try again and again. Failure makes you more focused on a successful outcome next time.



#Failure helps you to learn

Let’s take Thomas Edison for example, when he was being embarassed with a question why he failed hundreds of times before he was able to create a light bulb, but his answer to the question was that he hadn’t failed, he had just found hundreds of ways that it didn’t work. This is the mentality of geniuses and successful people. Failure to get the results you wanted is not a negative thing; it is simply an opportunity to try a different method. It is also the opportunity to start again. Meditate well on this!



#Failure helps you grow

When your efforts don’t work out, you have to reach deep inside to find the strength to try again. To solve the problem and make sure you get the desired result, you need to extend yourself, and so you grow. You need to stretch and possibly move outside your comfort zone. After experiencing failure, you will never be the same as you were before you tried. You don’t know how far you can go until you have tried and failed.



#Failure creates new opportunities

Many people believe that everything happens for a reason, we just don’t know what it is at the time. Failures often bring unforeseen opportunities that would not have been available without the failure in the first place. You often need to close one door so that another door of opportunity can be opened for you. Failure is a way of one door closing. Failure is seldom the end; it is often a bright beginning.



#Failure provides answers

If you don’t try and fail, you will never know if your idea or method is going to work. You spend time worrying that you don’t have the answer; you wonder whether it would have worked. The pain of regret is far worse than the pain of failure. When you fail, you can start again; with regret, you will never know.



#Failure gives you the best chance of success

Research out of Stanford University has shown that those who are the top of their field are the ones who have failed the most. Having to persevere to learn a new skill gives you the advantage over someone who gets it right first time. Learning many ways how not to do it gives you the edge over the person who hasn’t have that experience.



So, my Friend, don’t view failure as bad luck, instead look at each attempt to reach your goals as a triumph. There’s always something to learn, ways to grow, different viewpoints to see, and new opportunities waiting just around the corner. So get in and have a go. Fail fast and recover quickly to try again. Use every failure as an opportunity to learn and to grow as a person. Remember that every failure is like one step on the stairway to success. Above all else, remember this: If you never fail, you will never succeed.

Sunday 10 July 2016

SEEKING FOR KNOWLEDGE?......READ WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS ABOUT "KNOWLEDGE"






Are you seeking for Knowledge?

Why do you seek for Knowledge about something?

Are you only being obsessed by the power of Nature or you are only curious about it?








This article will help you find the real truths about Knowledge?


AMAZING FACTS ABOUT KNOWLEDGE

1. Knowledge started in the Garden of Eden (Knowledge of good and evil) – Genesis 2:9.



2. Knowledge of good and evil is the cause of Man’s death – Genesis 2:17.



3. The true knowledge is the fear of the Lord – Proverbs 1:7.



4. True knowledge only comes from God – Proverbs 2:6.



5. God created the earth through His knowledge – Proverbs 3:20.



6. Knowledge is rather to be chosen than pure gold – Proverbs 8:10.



7. Knowledge accompanies a man of understanding – Proverbs 14:6.



8. Only the wise and prudent man seeks for knowledge – Proverbs 18:15.



9. Knowledge is a Spirit – Isaiah 11:2.



10. Lack of Knowledge of God and the Kingdom of God leads to eternal destruction – Luke 11:52.



11. Keeping God’s commandment gives complete knowledge and truth – Romans 2:20.



12. Spirit of Knowledge is a gift – I Cor. 12:20.



13. Knowledge without Love amounts to nothing – I Cor. 13:2.





14. Knowledge of Man is in part and incomplete – I Cor. 13:9.



15. Knowledge of Christ and spreading His good news makes us triumph in Life – II Cor. 2:14.



16. Unity and Knowledge of God makes us grow to the standard of Christ – Ephesians 4:13.



17. Growing in God’s knowledge and understanding is a necessity of life – I Phillipians 1:9.



18. Diligence sustains and adds to knowledge – II Peter 1:5.



19. Keeping God’s commandment makes you grow in the knowledge of Christ Jesus – II Peter 1:8.



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Friday 8 July 2016

""YOU'RE NOT HERE"" - NEW TRIBUTE VIDEO BY THE LATE OJB JEZREEL'S CHILDREN


In an attempt to commemorate late music icon - OJB Jezreel's birthday, which happens to be July 4, his children teamed up to make things happen by dedicating this new musical video to their late father.



In their comments "
Today the 4th of July marks the birthday of our daddy, so we teamed up to make this happen. HAPPY BIRTHDAY to the best dad in the world and we miss you greatly. A tribute video YOU'RE NOT HERE to you daddy.


WATCH AND DROP YOUR COMMENTS





CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD VIDEO

MAY GOD GRANT HIS FAMILY THE FORTITUDE TO BEAR THE LOSS....AMEN

YOU WILL FOREVER LIVE IN OUR HEARTS!!!

REST IN PEACE....



 NAIRASWITCH






























Tuesday 5 July 2016

REASONS WHY YOU MUST NOT COMMIT SUICIDE - How To Deal With Suicidal Thoughts!!!




Going through a lot of harsh life situations and it all seem to be the end of the road?


Day by day you are experiencing a life situation with devastating consequences – to the extent that you can't even consider the possibility that the situation may change, or that it may become more bearable in time?


Have you tried therapy such as cognitive behavioral therapy and dialectical behavior therapy, and they still cannot help to reduce suicidal thoughts, remove depression and strengthen coping skills?







You always feel like hearing voices telling you to kill yourself – perhaps the voices telling you that you are a bad person or that you do not deserve to live – and you still find it hard to consider that the voices simply are wrong? Similarly, you are feeling worthless, hopeless or unlovable?


Let me use this medium to tell you that those thoughts are not true? You do not need to believe everything that you think or feel.


I have heard the saying before that many of us have a prosecutor residing in our heads, and they lack a defense attorney. There is always a prosecutor telling what you are, what you've done wrong, showing you your weaker sides.







My friend, do you know that you can learn to defend yourself against self-condemning thoughts and to feel better about yourself and your life again? It starts with you....I mean YOU.


Many times in my life, I've passed through some situations where I was always at the verge of losing every hope, and suicidal thoughts started creeping in.


The secrets that kept my hope alive till now are those things that am going to share with you here.


These are the things to consider about the action you want to take and reasons why you must not do so:


Killing yourself is never worth it; you’ll hurt both yourself and all the people you care about.



Always know that pain can distort your perception of what’s going on. Feelings of despair can make it seem as though tomorrow is not going to come but tomorrow will eventually come and you might feel differently.



Always understand that there are always other options in life, even if you don’t know what they are.



Life can change around in just a moment. That’s why it is impossible to predict what’s going to happen tonight or tomorrow morning



Always realize that suicidal thoughts often stem from treatable conditions or changeable situations.



Don’t rely on your suicidal thoughts, because suicide is only a permanent solution to a temporary problem. That is why it is a wrong approach to your situation. If you believe, positively a more appropriate solution may arise.



Know that people get through such helpless situations as yours. There are people who felt as bad as you feel right now, in which they got through it. There are people like you who wanted to commit suicide one day woke up the next day with a bright future ahead of them. So if they can get through it, you too can get through this. You don’t have to give up…..not now.



You’re worth more than what you’ve ever thought of. Your survival will make the world better, even if it’s for just one person, or 20 or 100 or more.



You have a purpose to fulfill in life and only YOU could find what it is.



No matter how much or how little, you surely have your life ahead of you.



Until your cloud is full, your rain cannot fall, always have the belief that someday things will work the way you want it. One day your smile will be real.



Always know that having the ability to be sad means that you also have the ability to be happy. It’s good to choose wisely between the two choices.



Never mind what others say about you, always know that you’re gorgeous, amazing and to someone, you’re perfect. Hold on to this mentality.



There are so many people that would miss you, including ME.



Think about all the things you’ve always wanted to do. What about the things you’ve planned, but never got around to doing? You cannot do them when you’re dead…you know!



Get encouraged and encourage yourself to keep on living. A time will come, once you’ve battled the toughest times of your life and are in ease once again, where you will be so glad that you decided to keep on living. You will be surprised that things will keep getting better as you go on in life. And you will emerge stronger from it all.



You ARE worth it. You deserve to live the good life that you want. Don’t let anyone especially yourself, tell you otherwise.



Suicide is one the greatest sins unto God. You are not the owner of your Life; so ending your life committing suicide is a sin unto God. He is the one who gave the Life, and He only has the right to take it anytime.



Sometimes, suicide may seem to be your last option; but the truth is, it is not the right solution.



Imagine you are able to go through this present situation without committing suicide, and things later worked out to the extent that you become a blessing to 500people. Do you know that the dreams of the said amount of people could have been dashed if you’ve ended your life? Think more about this!






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